how to get out in front

In no particular order:
1. stop using the goals and actions of others to dictate what you will do.
2. make sure you have rock solid unshakeable goals.
3. prepare for the worst, expect the best.
4. gather like minded individuals to go with you.
5. articulate your plan/vision or get someone who can.
6. become winsome, shed negativity.
7. delegate judiciously.
8. set the pace.
9. pray
10. be generous with your words.